Adult Social Life
Why making friends as an adult is so hard
The difficulty isn't yours: it's structural. The conditions that made friendship easy disappear in adult life by design, not through any social failing.
Read the article →How people connect today, and why something that used to be easy has become hard. We don't publish tips for making friends: we publish the conditions that make social life work, and which of them can be rebuilt on purpose.
The difficulty isn't yours: it's structural. The conditions that made friendship easy disappear in adult life by design, not through any social failing.
Read the article →Isolation is not a problem of how much social contact you have. It is a problem of shared context — and shared context can be built.
Read →Matching optimises the first encounter, not the sustained relationship. The way out is not more matches: it is making the near-misses that were already almost happening cheaper.
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